It was 30th October. Several software giants and other companies are celebrating Ethnic day. In IBM Noida the celebrations are on full swing. Different teams of software engineers joined together in the spirit of Ethnic day celebrations. People coming from different regions dressed up in different colors of red, white, yellow, pink and green but according their culture. The office is vibrating with multi color and ethnic style. IBM looked like a local carnival.
The day began with people of Jharkhand welcoming others with their tribal dance. People of Himachal performed Nati, the folk dance of Himachal pradesh. Ankita and Anasuya who are from Himachal were among them. The Tamilian men who came in lungis peformed Lungi dance with “ Lungi dance... Lungi dance. It was Rajinikanth's modern filmy song. “Since it was not a traditional song they proscribed it. Later Bharatanatyam was performed by Tamil girls Kunjal and Deepali. Wonder they both look alike. Every body thought they were identical twins. But they are not. But Yogesh told that they were dopplegangers. After the dance Manu put them side by side and observed there are slight differences between them in nose, chin and lips.
Manu
performed rajastan folk dance. Among the
eight popular folk dances of Rajastan Ghoomar, Kalbeliya, Bhavai, Kathputli , Kachchhi Ghodi, Gair, Chari and Chang, she selected
Ghoomar. The HR Manager Manohar said " Recently Ghoomar became an
internationally recognized folk dance." The dance involves
graceful moves like clapping & swaying the hands and twirling around. It was mainly performed as entertainment for Kings in the ancient times.
There are problems in dancing. Nobody knows dances. They have no idea about their own folk dances. Some people don’t even know the names. of the dances. From some states there are two employees and from from some states there is only one. So the men and women were coordinating with the person who is able to dance. Be it any dance. This is how the dance was going on. When Manu began the Ghoomar dance her colleagues tried to follow her but as the dance progressed the movements got complicated they could not follow her twists and turns. On the path of dance they dashed each other and fell down. That has brought laughter.
Manu
announced that she would do Kalbeliya dance alone. “It is called snake dance or Sapera dance.” Manu went into another room and changed to
black dress. It was a body fit. Somebody ran to his system and downloaded snake music and played it. A full
breasted woman Manu with a moon like face and charming curves is naturally attractive. In the black body tight dress she looked provocative. Any
movement of her is gracious. The music was slow at times and fast at times and Manu danced in accordance with the music. Her body movements - back bending and stretching legs on the ground, rolling, twisting and crawling were agile. She performed the traditional Sapera dance that
stole the show and elated the spirits
of the beholders.
The
Andhra people did not dance but welcomed the day with delicious ethnic
food garelu’, ‘payasam’,
‘pulihora’, ‘bobbatlu’ - the mouth
watering dishes. Everyone
in joyous mood. They hugged their traditions. They decorated the surroundings it to make it look like a festival of their own.
It was lunch time and the dances paused. The feast is going on. Everybody sat on the floor. Food is being served on banana leaves. "Is kalbelia a sensual dance?" Anasuya asked Yogesh who is a jack of all trades . " Yes, it is. " said Yogesh. The Kalbelia tribe members have always had a spiritual connection with snakes. Ultimately, this history and connection paved way for the Kalbelia cultural dance. Snake dancing, culture and eroticism are entrancing elements of the Kalbelia dance.
After
the feast is over they sat for a while narrating their folk stories. My mother
told me the story of Panna Dhai when I was young. Said Manu. It was the story of a maidservant. She had the
duty of upbringing of the Rani Karnavati’s sons, Vikramaditya and Uday Singh.
Mewar was ruled at the time by King Vikramaditya, Rani Karnavati’s eldest son. Banvir, a valiant soldier, was chosen to be Vikramaditya’s protector. Instead of protecting the royalty, he took advantage of the situation to further his own ambition. He thouught “If I kill Uday Singh and his brother there is no one in my way to become the king.” He secretly conspired to kill both. After he assassinated Vikramaditya, the maidservant saw Banvir coming for Uday sing.
She
concealed Uday Singh in the basket. She covered him with fruits. Panna placed
her own sleeping son Chandan, on the bed of Uday Singh, who was killed by
Banvir. Panna Dhai saved the only living heir to the throne of Mewar Uday Singh
and stood as a symbol of ultimate
sacrifice in the memory of people for
generations.
They
had cultural programs in their auditorium till late evening. A skit was going
on. The kannada group was performing it.
The Ethnic day was coming to an end. Mean time Yogesh who heard the news
told the HR manager Mr Manohar about it. When Mr. Manohar announced it on the
stage claps rained in the auditorium. It was the news of the chief Minister of
U.P inviting Manalini to Lucknow to honour her service. The colourful ethnic
day left a white track behind that looked like peace prevailing in the heart of
Manalini.
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Lavanya Apartments: Devaki was sitting
in the corner on her bedroom. she bent her head onto her knees and hid her
face. The clock was showing 8.00 pm. Meghana brought food. She stopped at Devaki's door and was looking at the sorrowful face of Devaki. Devaki tried to smile but could not. A moment later Mapuii also came in. They sat beside her and asked her to eat. Devaki was
reluctant to eat. "You did not eat in the afternoon, the food is still lying on
the table. come on eat. I have brought fresh hot food for you." said Meghana. Devaki did not
budge. "I am getting hungry. " pleaded meghana.
You know that my garment’s contractor created the same mess last month. He forced me to accept monetary help. I am ashamed seeking police help. so many times. The police are suspecting me." "So what would you like to do?" Said Mapuii. “ tears were trickling down her swollen red eyes. " A woman without husband must die.” Said Devaki. “O my my how timid you are? Where is your kanhaya? What is he doing when his mother is facing all these hardships?” May shouted on her son. “Don’t blame him. He remained unemployed for two years for me. Though he got jobs in other cities he did not join because I don’t want to leave Noida. after two long years I asked him to join anywhere. Recently he got a job in Meerut. He live there and comes here weekly once to see me” Devaki said. “Congrats to your kanhaya. you go to your son he will take care of you. No, I cannot go because I lived with my husband here. I have the memories here. I can not leave.” said Devaki. They were nonplussed. " Look how our literature has shaped the minds of women." said May. It is men who did it" replied Mapuii. Silence reigned for a while.
Devaki started again " Ever since he finished his studies Kanhaya was always in search of two things either a job or a match". “Oh he was searching a match for himself?” “No he was searching a match for me. He used to baffle at the attacks when he was young. He could neither protect his mother nor console. He always tells me “mom you beauty is a curse for me.” “ That is why he asks me to get married." said Devaki. He is very genuine.” Said May.
Devaki finished eating and washed her hand. Why don't you get married? Mapuii said “Hai
hai how can I marry now with a grown up son? If our relatives question me what
answer I have? There is nothing wrong in getting married. Nobody is going to
ask you anything. They don’t have so much of time. They have their own affairs,
like you sister’s husband who jumped on you. Once we must meet kanhaya. He is a
true son who want’s mom to live her life. He is one of his kind. Mapuii and May
left for their flat.
Well described the ethnic party.But poor Devaki.I couldn't guess why she is facing such type of encounters.She is not a teenager.Why couldn't she resist such a baustards.May be it happens in Metro cities.If she is in Andhra she could teach them a lesson.Andhra woman will give importance to morals. They can do any thing for the people whom they love.But they couldn't allow such type of harassment.Devaki must be strong.She has no need to think about her irresponsible husband She can go with her son.
ReplyDeleteGetting marry is not the solution for Devaki's problem.Ofcouse she can marry if she found a gentleman.But she must be strong enough to teach the lesson to the people.
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